What is cheating: cheating is not just the act of sex it’s the inappropriate conversations you are having it’s the call that you know your partner will have a problem with, cheating are those little things, those little text that you delete because you know that once your partner sees them there will be a problem and that’s why I hold your opinion that cheating would never and has never been a mistake.
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Cheating is flirting with someone else while in a relationship is cheating concealing interactions with someone else from your partner such as meeting up or engaging in private conversations is cheating
- Sudden changes in behavior: if he/she suddenly changing his routine spending more time away or is oddly secretive about his /her phone it might be a sign
- Emotional distance: filling a gap between you that wasn’t there before emotional withdraws can be a red flag is like is they but not really
- Decreased communication : when conversations dry up or he/she suddenly less interested in sharing it might be time to ask why
- Unexplained expenses: mysterious charges on bank statements or unexplained receipts financial clues can often lead to uncovering secrets
- You got feeling : never underestimate your intuition if something feels of it’s worth exploring trust yourself navigating these water can be tough but you’re not alone remember it’s okay to seek answers and it’s okay to demand respect your feelings are valid and there” strength in seeking truth
- Messages: him/she messages will suddenly becomes dry like nothing interesting, everything is just boring and liking deleting his/her chats with you ,know it’s disappearing mode is always on with you or if his/her phone is always facing down when you people are together and always on silence privacy is one thing, secrecy is another .
- Attention shift: so when your man or woman start cheating the first thing you notice is that he or she will stop paying attention to you as he /she usually does before and you need to pay attention to one thing because the person might be focusing on his/her work and not another woman or another man so you need to be very sure that this person is not focusing on work stuff because of course people can actually pull into their job and start working so hard but you are sure that is not work so that means somebody else is taking their time .
- Appearance: this may also be cause for concern, if your partner has an increased interest in their appearance, this could be a sign of cheating I.e .1. dressing nicer than normal 2. wearing a different style of clothing 3. Wearing clothes that show her shapes.
- Picking fight : because it’s natural once you are not interested in something, we start looking for ways to let that thing go and you don’t want to take the blame most people don’t like taking the blame in a relationship so when he/she start cheating , the person will start picking up small fight like any small thing will start complaining as soon as you start see all this sign you realize that this person is cheating
- Disrespecting: this is common to everybody because it is natural when people are no longer interested in something they will start to devalue that thing so he/she will start valuing you ,will start giving you the respect that you deserve.
