Reason why woman stays in unhealthy relationship

Reason why woman stays in unhealthy relationship

  1.       Emotional attachment: when a woman has invested much time, energy and emotions into a relationship it can be incredibly difficult  to let it go even if the relationship is unhealthy and unfulfilling .
  2.       Loneliness: many people but mostly women fear being alone or lonely after a breakup and this makes them very hesitant  to end a relationship because they worry about not finding someone else or ending the companionship that they currently have .
  3.       Dependency Financial: emotional or social dependency on a partner will be very difficult for a woman to leave a relationship. This dependency often creates a sense of helplessness and even a sense of being trapped .
  4.       Hope for chance: women will often hold on to a relationship because they think that their partner can change. They believe that maybe these problems are temporary or that even they can work them through .
  5.       Fear of confrontation : conflict ending a relationship often involves difficult conversations and some women will actually and avoid ending a relationship because they worry that these confrontations will lead to conflict.
  6.       Self esteem :low self esteem can make it every challenging  to end the relationship because some woman think that they actually don”t deserve better or that they won”t find some who will treat them right at
  7.       External pressure : external factors such as societal expectations, family pressure or even religious beliefs some women actually feel that they are obligated to stay  in a relationship because of these external factors .
  8.       History and investment : the longer a woman is in a relationship the harder it will be for her to shared  history shared assets and mutual friends  and make it even more complex for the breakup to happen .
  9.       Uncertainty about the future : fear of the unknown, a woman might worry what life will be like post breakup which can make her very hesitant to take that step and finally .
  10.   Guilty: women like anyone else may feel guilty in ending a relationship by fear of hurting their partner they may  also feel responsible for the relationship problems and be reluctant in leaving their partner by fear of hurting them even more now if you have kids that now becomes the no 1 reason why a woman will stay in relationship even if she”s unhappy because they now feel guilty for breaking the family up.
  11.   Attachment trauma : can be a pretty big thing and so for somebody to leave an individual can be more terrify for them and more triggering than staying in an abusive relationship then we have women who”v been abused their whole lives so they don’t”t really know anything different it”s kind of all they know so a lot of times they don’t even realize that they”re being abused .
  12.   Manipulative: so if someone”s in a relationship with somebody who”s manipulative who”is gaslighting who’s lying a victim can be really confused and a lot of times they think they”re the problem and they start feeling like they”re going nuts and something must be about the matter with them that”s really common .
  13.   Unhealthy behavior :society also normalizes unhealthy behavior  so people don”t realize they are in abusive relationships. Do you know how many times I”v had to tell women” do you understand what”s going on here because they have no clue .
  14.   Emotionally healthy: it’s because they”re not emotionally healthy  and there”s no way you can do more if you are not emotionally stable “love yourself “ like yourself ” there’s a difference between love and liking when you , like yourself you can spend time with you ,  you don”t need the validation of anybody to be you like yourself  , wake up in the morning look at yourself in the mirror and blow kisses on yourself  it”s Christmas time nobody remembered or it”s your birthday nobody remembered to send you a card , buy a card or write a letter to yourself post it to yourself  receive it to yourself and read it to yourself .

 

 

 

 

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